Leave, Get Out!
I am so freaking angry, I have never felt so mad in my entire life. I feel so disrespected by the one person that I trust the most in the entire world. My sister should be the first person to respect my wish not be the person who disrespects my wishes.
My ex boyfriend and I broke up a few years back after he got back from being stationed in Italy. A close friend of mine who was on the base in Italy with him informed me that well he was gone he was cheating on me and to make sure I didn’t sleep with him till he got checked. Now this friend is a very trust worthy friend and not someone that would play games. So doing the smart thing I told him I wanted him gone out of my life. And foolish me I thought I was done dealing with him and his childish games boy was I wrong.
I found out a few months ago that he was calling my sister, my best friend. Even though they were not friends during our relationship I was like fine whatever just long as I am not the topic of conversation. Next time I talked with she told me that he was asking about how I was doing, and how he could get a hold of me. I got so angry and was like you tell him that he has no reason to be getting a hold of me and no business asking about me. The way I figure it all those rights went out the damn window when he through our relationship in the dump.
Tonight my boyfriend and I had some errands to run in town. I had to take duplicate gifts back, and he wanted to pick up a computer game. When we met back up he told me he ran into my sister who informed him that my ex called her again. And that he had made a comment towards my medical condition, which granted he didn’t know about but he has not need for that knowledge.
As soon as I got home I called my sister to ask her about the conversation. And I think I may not have handled it to the best of my ability but I felt so insulted by her actions. As soon as she picked up I was letting emotions control me instead of my controlling my emotions. I told her I didn’t appreciate her talking to him about certain subjects and if I found out that it happened again I wasn’t talking to her again, simple!
A few hours later and with a clear mind I feel kind of bad about the situation. Yes I have the right to be angry, and no they do not have the right to talk about me, but I should not have told her that I’d never talk to her again. I just feel hurt, insulted and I felt that she should not have told my boyfriend of all people about this conversation.
